Start with the label.
Water-based and silicone-based are two common lubricant categories. Compare ingredients, intended use, cleanup instructions, and compatibility with the exact products you use. A label matters more than a broad promise of safety.
Check what goes together.
Oil-based products can damage latex and polyisoprene condoms. Silicone lubricants may damage silicone toys. Follow the instructions for both your lubricant and your other products; ask for help finding the relevant information.
Make room for personal preferences.
Texture, fragrance, ingredients, and packaging can all shape your choice. Individual sensitivities vary. Stop using a product if it irritates you, and speak with a qualified healthcare professional about persistent discomfort or health concerns.
Our managers can help you compare available labels without requiring you to discuss personal details.
Further reading: Planned Parenthood: sex toys and care; Planned Parenthood: lubricant compatibility.